Simple steps of solving problems

The major things that makes your partner fails to communicate with you are not something very difficult to tell. They are very few but because you don't reason carefully  which is making your problems keeps on going without getting solved. Below are what you should know that it is happening on the side of your partner

Fear
Husbands should not make their wife to fear them similarly to wives as you can't communicate well to each other when you have fear in your heart. Fear destroys communication. Remember, there is no fear in love instead love removes fear.

Too Busy
Don't spent most of your time on doing work, eg Reading, Teaching, Charting, or in office work and go sleeping. Please get some time and discuss or communicate with each other freely without fear.

Not Listening.
For communication to occur, we should respond through listening carefully. This has come to my concern because sometimes  when your partner is speaking, you think of something you want to say. So as he/she is talking, you're waiting for a chance to tell him/her your great idea but while you're waiting, you're not listening therefore, be careful when your partner is speaking to you .listen carefully to all what is being spoken and later think twice and reason before you reply.

Hurt
If you had been quarrelling over something little and you felt much of the pain, don't keep it silent. It will make your love half hurted and you will still feel hurt , the only best way to solve your pain is by going straight to your partner and say I am sorry .Speak honestly and also respectfully. Maybe you can start by saying "Dear sweetheart, I think I should let you know that your words this morning hurt me. In fact I have felt hurted all day. Now I feel ashamed for letting such a small think bother me so much!"
That is it. You have apologized and you were honest  and respectful while saying it. Believe me after that, your love will be peaceful. You will even communicate more freely. With that taken into the mind, you can now begin to solve your problems easily