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Sunday 12 June 2016

Money Issues -The greatest evil in relationship.

The demand for more money is now increasing in a rapid way that even the whole world may not tell why it is.Most people want to acquire a lot of money and get rich but if they are asked what they will do with richest ,few will give a clear reason and others  will give different varieties of answers. For instance, a mechanic said he would sell off his house,land and travel from continent to continent, a young boy said he would buy for his mother all that is required for kitchen work so that she may have enough rest ,a housewife said she would use it to buy the items that others are lucking and give them for free and another man said  he would use it to get many women.All these answers has a different meaning.Therefore, everyone have a different plan on money in which he/she keeps on struggling for.The key role of money is for payment of goods and services and for payment of debt.The demand for money has turned to be one of the most greatest enemies of relationship .Today, there are so many innocent love that have broken apart due to this earthly material and others are on there way to .Before we go further, let's look at the key points about money and the effects of money on relationship.

Some key points about money
  1. Money increases certain type of happiness more than others.
  2. If money can't buy happiness, happiness just might generate the money and happiness is found to be merely correlated ,not casually connected
THE EFFECTS OF MONEY ON RELATIONSHIP

Friday 3 June 2016

"4 Guiding Principles Of Making a Lasting Friendship"

If you are asked, "what kind of relationships is between you and someone?" What do you think will come out of your mind as the answer to that question? I know You can come up with so many answers but you will put your decision on only some few among which could be your; friend, lover,father, brother, sister and so on because all people are related in different ways but the relationship varies.
In this content, you will get to know what it means to be in  friendship with anybody excluding other things in relationships.  Like most people ,you probably agree that good friends are important. Now, what does it take to make a lasting friendship? Below, is the "4 guiding principles of making a lasting friendship"
1.Show that you really care.
True friendship involves commitment.In other words,a good friend feels a responsibility
toward you, and he really cares about you.  Of course ,such a commitment is two-way,and it requires hard work and sacrifice on both sides. But the rewards are worth the effort. Ask yourself,'Am I willing to give of myself,my time, and my resources for my friend?' Remember, to have a good friend, you first need to be a good friend.
2.Be a good communicator.
A true friendship can't flourish without regular communication. So talk together about the interest you share .listen to what your friend has to say and respect his/her opinions. Whenever possible,commend and encourage him/her. At times, a friend may need advice or even more correction and that may not be easy to give. However, loyal friend will have the courage to point out a serious fault and offer tactful guidance.
3.Have a realistic expectation.
The closer we get to a friend, the more likely we are to see his/her flaws. Our friends are not perfect but neither are we.Therefore, we should never expect or demand perfection from the people we befriend. Rather, it is good to cherish their virtues and to make allowances for their mistake
4.widen your circle of friends
True, we need to be selective about  the people we befriends But that does not mean narrowing our choice of friends to those of a certain age or upbringing. Taking an interest in all the people of all ages ,cultural background and nationalities can truly enrich our lives