The demand for more money is now increasing in a rapid way that even the whole world may not tell why it is.Most people want to acquire a lot of money and get rich but if they are asked what they will do with richest ,few will give a clear reason and others will give different varieties of answers. For instance, a mechanic said he would sell off his house,land and travel from continent to continent, a young boy said he would buy for his mother all that is required for kitchen work so that she may have enough rest ,a housewife said she would use it to buy the items that others are lucking and give them for free and another man said he would use it to get many women.All these answers has a different meaning.Therefore, everyone have a different plan on money in which he/she keeps on struggling for.The key role of money is for payment of goods and services and for payment of debt.The demand for money has turned to be one of the most greatest enemies of relationship .Today, there are so many innocent love that have broken apart due to this earthly material and others are on there way to .Before we go further, let's look at the key points about money and the effects of money on relationship.
Some key points about money
- Money increases certain type of happiness more than others.
- If money can't buy happiness, happiness just might generate the money and happiness is found to be merely correlated ,not casually connected
The greedy sometimes believe that financial matters will never stand between them and their partners but sometimes it turns out to be wrong.Couples with extreme financial stress tends to have lower levels of satisfaction in their relationship because as they undergo through financial struggle, they become harsh ,hostile, irritable and uncommunicative.They always find it hard to discuss about their financial disagreement in a calm manner even a small.
Couples should know that it takes longer to recover from argument about money than it takes to recover from other argument and this argument decrease relationships satisfaction.
Some people after their marriage for a shortime begin to reveal that their money is slipping a away like sand that slips through their fingers ,that their spending is out of control and they blame their spouse but think so fast and as a team .Consider some factors that may have caused both of you to get into this predicament. Use a good approach when talking about money without damaging a fulfilling relationship. Make sure the issue is about money.
Too often the disagreement about money have nothing to do with money itself and more to do with issues of control, security, self esteem and love.
THE MAJOR CAUSES OF MONEY ISSUES
Harming your partners credit or savings.
If you and your partners fails to pay your share and an account become deliqueunt, this can ruin your partner's credit in addition to your relationship.
Failure to discuss purchases before you make them.
It is important to layout ground rules once you begin to share money with your couples to determine the price of each item and when it is acceptable by all of you rather than spending the whole money in buying unnecessary items.
Hiding debts or poor spending habits.
You need to be open and transparent to discuss where you are financially, particularly if you are in a committed relationship that is lasting for long time to avoid lack of trust and embarrassment.
Another way to quickly kill a relationship is to eat away your partner's savings accounts or to take money without asking them first
Too often the disagreement about money have nothing to do with money itself and more to do with issues of control, security, self esteem and love.
THE MAJOR CAUSES OF MONEY ISSUES
Harming your partners credit or savings.
If you and your partners fails to pay your share and an account become deliqueunt, this can ruin your partner's credit in addition to your relationship.
Failure to discuss purchases before you make them.
It is important to layout ground rules once you begin to share money with your couples to determine the price of each item and when it is acceptable by all of you rather than spending the whole money in buying unnecessary items.
Hiding debts or poor spending habits.
You need to be open and transparent to discuss where you are financially, particularly if you are in a committed relationship that is lasting for long time to avoid lack of trust and embarrassment.
Another way to quickly kill a relationship is to eat away your partner's savings accounts or to take money without asking them first
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